Be an upstander, not a bystander
Tips to take action when you see or hear inappropriate behaviour that may prevent a crime.
There is no excuse for abuse in modern society. No reason or motive for an anyone to abuse you or those around you. Everywhere should feel safe.
We are calling out abusive and intolerable behaviour, specifically men’s violence against women and girls, and asking everyone to do more to change this within society.
What are upstanders?
Upstanders are people who actively intervene when they see injustice, bullying, or discrimination, rather than passively watching it take place.
This involves you picking the most appropriate approach you feel comfortable with depending on the situation, who is involved, and how confident you feel.
There are no right or wrong answers in how to choose to respond; the only wrong option is to be a bystander and do nothing.
The 4 Ds
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Step 1 :
Take action – speak up in a polite and calm manner.
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Step 2 :
Intervene by distracting attention elsewhere – say something that supports the positive aspects of the conversation.
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Step 3 :
Tell someone – identify someone who can support you or who is in a better position to help. For example, call 999 in an emergency.
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Step 4 :
Take action later – speak to the perpetrator at another time, or make an online crime report.